67 | My Unconventional Approach to Instagram Marketing
I'm not here to help you go viral. I'm not even here to help you gain followers.
I'm here to help you make money, have an impact, and enjoy the creative process of creating content.
Tune in to hear my unconventional thoughts on social media marketing and 5 tips to use Instagram to make money consistently, have an impact, and enjoy a creative outlet.
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I've coached nearly 100 women about their screen time,
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:and here's what I've learned.
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:Women actually don't care about their
screen time, they care about those things
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:that are impacted by their screen time.
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:Their ability to be patient with their
kids, the growth of their business,
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:having time to pursue their creative
dreams, their relationship with their
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:husband, the inner peace that they feel,
their confidence in themselves, their
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:Connection with God, their friendships
not missing out on their kids' childhoods.
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:I'm Alex and I'm here to
help you find inner peace.
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:Enjoy true fulfillment
and be fully present.
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:Welcome to the Mindful with Media Podcast.
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:Welcome back to the podcast.
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:My son he's three and a half now, but
he, especially more when he was two.
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:He would often ask for.
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:A lot of whatever we were serving him.
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:For example, like when we'd be getting
him yogurt or cottage cheese, he would
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:say, can I have a lot, can I have a lot?
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:And say, yeah, you can have a lot
or we just dish it up for him.
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:And then he would ask, is this a lot?
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:Yes.
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:It's a lot, which is such
a relative term, right?
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:Like.
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:We just told him it was a lot because
that's that's can be so ambiguous.
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:And I've noticed that the same thing.
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:Can happen with how people feel about
Instagram and different metrics on
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:Instagram, whether that's how many
followers you have, or how many
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:views your reels get, or how many.
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:Likes or saves or shares or comments like.
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:Our perception of.
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:All of those metrics
is a very relative and.
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:I've noticed that it's can
be easy to use those metrics.
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:So that Instagram becomes a place
of seeking external validation and.
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:Using those vanity metrics to judge
whether or not our business is working.
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:Or even if we're valuable.
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:And of worth as individuals.
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:That it can, it can get
really muddy, muddled.
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:What does that word.
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:It can get confusing there.
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:And I have a very different approach to.
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:Using Instagram to market my
business and I always have.
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:And.
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:So I want to share that with you today.
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:My unconventional approach
to Instagram marketing.
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:I am fascinated by.
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:Instagram marketing.
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:I.
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:Love learning about all the
different hacks and how the
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:algorithm works and growth tips.
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:And.
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:Really anything and
everything when it comes to.
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:Instagram marketing.
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:I I love and I have learned so much.
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:But I do things really differently.
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:And I intentionally don't follow.
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:All of the things that Instagram experts.
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:It's teach.
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:And there are a lot of different
reasons that I do this, but one is
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:because it can so quickly and so easily.
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:Become a distraction or a time
sucker from what will actually
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:help your business the most.
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:And.
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:I am not here to help you grow
your followers on social media.
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:I believe that you.
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:Have enough followers to.
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:Already make money from who's
in your audience right now.
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:And even if you focus on.
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:Selling to them and I'm
not just selling to them.
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:We'll get into that.
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:But like, even if you
just focus on serving.
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:Who's already in your audience.
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:You will naturally grow.
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:It won't be fast growth,
but you will actually grow.
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:And you will attract people who
actually want to be part of your
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:audience and want to be sold to.
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:So.
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:I'm not here to help you grow.
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:I'm not here to help you go viral.
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:I'm not even here to help
you get tons of engagement.
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:Instead, I am here to help you do three
things with your Instagram marketing.
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:Number one.
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:To actually make money.
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:Number two is to have an impact for good.
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:That is something that's really
important to me is to actually
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:serve the people in my audience.
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:And I believe that if you're here, that
that's the type of business owner that
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:you are, that you really want to have
a positive impact with your, your voice
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:and with the things that you've learned.
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:And then third.
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:That's really important to me with.
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:My Instagram marketing and for.
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:That I want to help you as well,
is that it can be a creative outlet
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:for you, and it can be a enjoyable
creative process to create.
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:And so I'll get into some tips later.
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:But, like I said, I just
don't want to let Instagram.
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:Distract you from, well, actually
move the needle in your business.
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:And I'm sure you've heard
people talk about how.
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:You really don't have to
use social media at all to.
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:Make money from your business.
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:I personally really enjoy Instagram.
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:It feels like a really fun way to.
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:Market my business.
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:And so I choose to use it as
my main form of marketing.
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:But you really don't have to,
if it's becoming more of a.
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:Distraction then it is helpful.
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:That's.
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:A distraction from like things in your
business, or even just a distraction
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:from what you really want out of life.
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:If that's being present with your kids or.
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:Enjoying time to yourself and
like other creative pursuits.
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:You can be so focused on creating content
or gaining followers that you never
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:actually make money from your business.
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:And so I'm here to say, to encourage
you to spend less time making content
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:and more time creating offers.
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:Spend less time.
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:Creating perfect posts or
really beautiful posts.
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:And more time doing market research
to find out what your audience
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:actually wants to pay you for.
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:And I will say that my content
that is focused on selling, or
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:even just more like my strategy.
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:Generally does not get as much engagement.
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:Especially those posts that
are focused on selling.
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:But it does make a much deeper
impact on the people that do buy.
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:And I've shared this story before, but.
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:I want to say it was like
a year ago or something.
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:Posted something and it got
relatively low engagement.
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:Even for like my normal
engagement, which I don't usually
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:get like super high engagement.
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:Again, all relative.
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:But it was relatively low.
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:For me.
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:And.
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:Later.
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:It was like a long time later.
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:I don't know, maybe like a month or two.
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:I had more than one person DME about
that post and how it impacted them.
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:And then I had a client bring
it up in a one-on-one call
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:about that post specifically.
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:And so this is all to say
that like, Engagement is just.
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:It's it doesn't paint the whole
picture of how you're impacting people.
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:And so I care a lot more about.
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:Really trying to serve
people through my content.
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:Whether that's serving them
through my content itself,
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:like providing that free value.
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:Or.
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:Serving them so that they know
what I'm offering and how they can.
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:Get more help for me.
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:That feels like.
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:I don't know, that's the
approach that I like.
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:Instead of focusing on.
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:Certain.
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:Hacks or whatever too.
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:To grow my account and, and
like, not to say that I don't.
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:Implement.
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:Like best practices when it
comes to social media marketing,
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:especially on Instagram.
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:But.
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:It's it's secondary.
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:Because, yeah, again, you can get
so focused on creating content.
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:For the algorithm that you miss out
on the joy and the fun of the creative
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:process, because you feel so stuck
in trying to do it the right way.
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:Or you can get so obsessed with your
metrics that you miss out on the joy of
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:having a positive impact because your.
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:You are so focused on all this didn't
perform as well, instead of just.
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:Believing that you're having a
positive impact, whether or not
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:the, the metrics necessarily.
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:Show that.
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:And.
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:I actually have so many ideas.
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:That I intentionally don't do because
of the time and effort it would take,
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:whether that's certain trends that are
going on that I, I just don't want to
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:take the time out of my Workday to do,
or out of my time with my kids to do or.
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:Like recording certain B roll often.
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:You'll notice I just
use B roll from my life.
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:Like.
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:I don't do anything extra.
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:Or like certain, like types of videos
that would require more editing.
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:Like I just.
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:Intentionally decide that
that's not worth my time.
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:Right now I just do the basics and.
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:So if.
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:What Instagram experts are
teaching doesn't work for me.
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:And not just doesn't work for
me, but just doesn't support what
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:I want most than I don't do it.
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:So like spending tons of time
on hashtags, I kind of dislike.
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:First things that come to mind.
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:That's what I do for hashtags
or posting a certain times, or.
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:I don't know, graphic design things.
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:And again like this, isn't saying you
just like throw it out the window,
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:but it's just a Wayne, like is taking
time to either learn this or do this.
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:Worth.
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:Missing out on these other things,
like, is it really worth it?
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:And again, like coming back to
perfectionism in your content.
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:I.
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:We'll never forget this quote that
I learned from one of my first
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:business mentors done is better
than perfect or as Voltaire.
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:Said perfect is the enemy of good.
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:And you really won't serve anyone
or have any impact if you're so
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:caught up in making perfect content.
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:So let's get into some tips to help.
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:I think I have.
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:Five tips to share today.
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:The first thing.
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:Is to get really clear on
why you have your business.
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:And then why you're
specifically using Instagram.
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:To market your business or not
even to market your business.
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:Why are you using Instagram in general?
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:So, Some examples.
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:My top reasons for spending
time and energy on my business.
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:I am so passionate about what I do.
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:Aye.
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:Love.
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:Helping moms actually make
consistent money from their business.
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:In a way that aligns with
the lifestyle that they want.
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:Which is often not spending tons of time.
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:On their business and.
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:Using social media to market
their business without.
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:Letting it take over their life.
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:I just love watching and helping women.
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:Grow their businesses.
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:Second.
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:My business is an outlet for me.
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:I really like having time away
from my kids to do something.
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:That's.
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:Mentally stimulating for me.
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:That's.
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:I'm passionate about, and it's
just so fun and fulfilling for me.
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:And I feel like it really does help me.
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:Be a better mom and a better
wife and just a better person.
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:And so that's my second reason.
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:And then third.
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:Aye.
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:Make money to support my
family, especially as Matt
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:has stopped working full time.
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:This is becoming more of a.
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:Primary source of our income.
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:And so.
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:That's more of a newer reason,
but it's becoming Yeah.
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:A way too.
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:Financially provide for our family.
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:And then why Instagram specifically?
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:As I shared earlier.
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:I just really like Instagram.
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:It's really fun for me.
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:It's really easy.
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:I love being able to share my thoughts
and ideas with a lot of people in such a.
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:Relatively simple way.
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:And I love providing free values
for moms and business owners.
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:Second.
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:I specifically use Instagram
because I like to learn from other
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:business owners and also just.
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:Like learn about business,
but also learn about.
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:Parenting and mindfulness
and things like that.
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:So I love using Instagram for that.
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:And also just connecting.
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:I feel like I've met a lot of my
coaches via Instagram and also with.
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:Other business owners and
I've become a good friend.
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:So I love using it as a
way to connect and learn.
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:And then third.
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:I specifically, specifically
like to use Instagram.
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:Two.
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:Share about my offers and how to work
with me, because it feels like such a
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:natural extension of the free value that.
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:I already am providing on Instagram.
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:And so Instagram is where
I find most of my clients.
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:And so that's why I
continued to use Instagram.
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:So this can be really helpful for you.
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:It's just get really clear on.
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:Y.
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:Why do you have your business?
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:I would come up with three
reasons on why you're spending
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:time and effort on your business.
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:And then why Instagram?
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:Why do you use Instagram?
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:And that that's kind of like the
foundation that will help you.
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:Make some other decisions.
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:So.
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:Tip number two.
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:Too.
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:Help you with your.
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:Instagram strategy.
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:That's.
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:Unconventional.
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:Is to make sure that you need nothing.
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:From Instagram.
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:I haven't noticed that.
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:It can be really easy.
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:Kind of like I mentioned earlier
to start to rely on Instagram.
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:As a form of validation as a
form, even like I said, like
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:connection, if that's your only way
of you're connecting with people.
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:That you, you want to make sure that.
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:You have connection outside of Instagram?
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:We're outside of your
business, even just like.
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:Just start to pay attention.
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:Y you're turning to Instagram.
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:And then.
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:Write those things down.
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:And then brainstorm ways that you
can make sure that you can, you
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:have those needs met somewhere else.
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:So like if it's.
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:Validation.
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:K.
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:Where do you want your
validation to come from?
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:As a business owner, as a
person, as an individual.
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:If you're looking for an escape from.
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:Your kids.
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:And so you turn to Instagram where.
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:People like you more.
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:Or you want to see if you have some more.
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:Comments or DMS or whatever,
get that dopamine hit.
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:Okay.
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:How can you.
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:Recognize what's actually
going on for you.
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:And get those true needs met
instead of turning to Instagram.
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:I could go in.
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:Um, About that all day, but just make
sure that you need nothing from Instagram.
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:And it'll be a lot easier to show up
authentically on there and serve people.
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:From a place of not needing.
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:Not needing views or engagement too.
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:Validate you as a person
or as a business owner.
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:Third tip is to.
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:When you're creating content.
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:Make sure to create for.
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:The idea of someone who is so excited.
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:To see that you've posted.
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:I've noticed this my
past self and clients.
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:Where sometimes I'm recreating content.
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:We subconsciously start to think about.
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:Certain people that we know
personally and how they might judge
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:either what we're doing in our
business or what we're posting.
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:Right.
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:And so then you subconsciously
start creating for them and you're
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:creating from this place of like,
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:Trying to convince people or like
just feeling dumb or it's just
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:not a great place to create from.
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:So that's why I really like to, I don't.
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:Create for those people.
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:Instead I create for someone who.
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:No matter what I post, she loves it.
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:She's so excited to see that I've posted.
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:Because she's obsessed
with everything I share.
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:I share.
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:And again, It shouldn't be someone,
you know, just the idea of a person.
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:So I guess kind of like an activity
to help you to create for her more.
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:Think about that person.
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:And then think about how do you want
her to feel when she sees your content?
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:Relieved understood.
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:Connected.
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:Valued.
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:Hope loved.
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:Joy.
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:Laughter.
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:How do you want her to feel?
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:And choose three words that you want
her to feel when she sees your content
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:or when she binges your Instagram feed.
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:Then after you've chosen
those three words.
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:Set a timer for 10 minutes
and scroll through Instagram.
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:Either you can scroll through
your feed or you could scroll
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:through like the reels tab.
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:And notice which posts make you feel?
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:Those three things.
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:And I would make sure to have the Google
doc out as you're doing this activity.
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:And just think about.
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:What about those posts
make you feel that way?
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:Which ones pull you in.
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:Like, why are you drawn to these posts?
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:Specifically?
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:And just take some notes on what,
what about it makes you feel that way?
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:So then when you're creating
content and you start to have
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:any subconscious thoughts about.
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:What people, certain people might think
about your posts or things like that.
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:Take a step back and think about her,
create for the person who is excited.
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:To consume whatever you share,
because she already loves.
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:You and what you share.
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:And then create that
content that helps her feel.
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:Those three words.
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:K tip number four.
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:Is two.
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:Focus on.
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:Time.
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:Instead of frequency when it comes to
your content creation, you often hear
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:the importance of posting consistently
. Or like the whole debate of quality
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:versus quantity, yada, yada, yada.
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:My perspective is that it's actually
been helpful for me instead of
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:deciding a frequency to post,
like how often I want to post.
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:You know, whether that's daily or
three times a week or whatever it is.
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:Instead.
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:I like to just choose an amount
of time that I want to devote
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:to content creation each week.
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:So that I make sure that
I'm not wasting all my time.
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:All my work time, creating content,
and I still have time for those
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:other, other things that actually.
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:Help me make money.
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:An activity that can help with this.
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:Just to get.
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:Faster at creating content
and also let go of.
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:Perfectionism.
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:If you tend to get perfectionistic
about your content is set
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:a timer for 30 minutes.
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:And.
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:Just try to create as many
pieces of content as you can.
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:You don't have to post these.
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:And as you're creating these, as
you're creating all these pieces
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:of content, remember to create for.
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:Her that that person we talked about.
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:Who is so excited.
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:To see whatever you post.
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:And this activity it'll help you.
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:Get faster at creating content.
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:And then if you want to, you'll have
lots of content that you can share.
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:Okay.
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:And then tip number five is two.
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:Set up a content creation
schedule or a system.
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:That works for you personally.
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:And you'll hear all these tips
about batching or things like that.
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:And so I used to try to batch
and it just did not work for me.
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:I think coming back to those three
things that really matter to me in.
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:My Instagram marketing strategy is
making money, having an impact for good.
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:And then.
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:A creative outlet.
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:And so when I found, when I
was batching too much, it.
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:It like took the creativity
out of it for me.
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:And I just, I don't know,
it just didn't work for me.
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:So.
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:My favorite thing is to.
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:Choose a certain time once a week.
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:Set aside time for one hour.
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:And.
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:Ask God to help me.
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:Know what to share with
my audience that week.
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:Sometimes I'll follow some.
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:More of like a schedule,
especially if I'm launching
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:something, I'll follow more of a.
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:Guidelines with that.
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:And if not, then I just
choose a focus for the week.
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:And then I just.
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:I like to outline every piece of content.
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:Like word for word.
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:So then during the week, When I
go to post it's already outlined.
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:And I can either just like
create the carousel on Canva.
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:Like the graphic, or I can just make
the real, but I don't have to do all the
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:brainwork of like what to say for the.
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:Text or the caption or things like that.
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:So that's, what's worked for me.
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:Some questions to help you
decide what you want to do.
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:Do you want to choose a posting frequency?
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:Or would you rather.
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:Choose a time commitment.
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:And if you do do want to
do a time commitment, like.
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:When, when will that be?
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:Or also.
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:You can do something else.
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:You too, you don't have to do like
a frequency or time commitment.
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:You can just post
whenever you feel like it.
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:And.
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:You can see success, especially if your
success as defined by making money.
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:Having a positive impact.
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:And.
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:. Creating content as a
creative outlet, like having.
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:Doing the creative process.
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:If that's your metrics for success.
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:You can do that without doing things
the way that everyone says to.
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:Some of their questions to ponder as
you're kind of setting up your own.
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:Schedule or system.
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:How much time do you want to
spend outlining content each week?
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:How much time do you want to
spend creating content each week?
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:When do you want to outline content?
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:When do you want to create content?
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:And do you want to.
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:Batch it like certain times for
filming B roll or certain times for
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:editing videos, certain times for.
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:Canva like doing graphics on Canva.
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:And then I think the most
important question is when
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:will you not create content?
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:I think you can relate
that as a business owner.
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:You could always be creating
more content, right?
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:There's not really a limit on how much
content you can create and often ideas
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:just come to you for content ideas.
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:And so.
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:It can be easy to just try
to create it right then.
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:But I like to have some
pretty clear boundaries around
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:when I don't create content.
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:Especially if I'm wanting to have
intentional present time with my kids,
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:even if idea an idea comes to me.
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:I just asked him the father that
if he wants me to share that,
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:to remind me at another time.
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:And it also, when I'm my like nighttime,
that's another time that I will.
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:Never create content
during my bedtime hours.
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:I don't even write the ideas down anymore.
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:And I know that again.
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:Like that might not resonate for
you that might not work for you, but
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:that has worked really well for me
to have some clear boundaries abound.
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:When I, when I don't create.
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:Content.
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:When I don't go on Instagram
too, we can get into that too.
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:As far as like,
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:Not just creating content, but also like.
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:When to use Instagram.
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:Anyways, I'm done.
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:K just to recap today.
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:I don't do things the way that
most Instagram experts teach.
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:And it's very intentional, even
though I know certain things.
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:And I.
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:Care less about growing
your followers going viral.
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:I care or getting engagement and I
care more about using Instagram to make
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:money, have an impact for good and enjoy.
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:The creative process.
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:Some tips to help.
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:Think about.
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:Three reasons why you spend time
and their energy on your business.
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:And then three reasons
why you use Instagram.
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:Second tip.
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:Think about what you're
secretly needing from Instagram.
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:And brainstorm ways that you
can make sure that you have
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:those needs met somewhere else.
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:Tip number three.
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:Whenever you're creating content.
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:Think about.
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:Your ideal client who loves
anything that you share?
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:Tip number four.
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:Focus on how much time you're
spending on creating content instead
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:of how frequently you're posting.
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:And then fifth and finally create a
content creation schedule or system.
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:That works for you personally.
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:And with that, be open to it.
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:Changing and shifting and you don't have
to be like so stuck in originated ways.
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:But just start to experiment
what works for you.
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:If you.
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:found this podcast helpful, please.
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:Sure it, whether that's on your
Instagram stories or send it to a friend.
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:That.
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:Helps me a lot.
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:Thank you so much.
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:And we'll talk to you next.